I can’t stand a girl that expects a man to be perfect but doesn’t have shit to offer herself. A relationship has a lot to deal with compromise, growth and communication. If you still live at home, don’t even have the audacity to diss a guy cause he doesn’t have his own place or his car isn’t nice enough for you. A great woman helps to bring out the best in her man. Ask him what his dreams are. Find out what his goals are. Stay up late drinking wine with him while you brainstorm how you both can get to the top. If he has great potential and wants to better himself, don’t be afraid to help him. No man will have it all or be able to give you everything automatically. Tons of money? Maybe he has little time for you. Tons of time for you? Maybe he doesn’t have the most money. Find someone who helps you grow but don’t forget to water their roots in the process.
Hold the fuck up. There are countless women who stick with men who have potential. But when that man begins to take your life force it’s no longer healthy for the woman to stay there. That’s why those women who stick with those type of men get kicked to the curb once he reaches success because all her life and being went into him. Then he has the nerve to look at her with disdain and say “we aren’t in the same place” and leaves her ass for some pretty bimbo. Don’t you dare criticize women for quitting on men. We are now too busy becoming our own potential. We tired of helping y’all asses.
Did you brainstorm how to make this negative? Point was if he don’t have a mansion, give him a try and build. Most women search for a man with money and if he has a great heart, they make it seem like it counts but barely. I didn’t say “and if he has potential let him walk on you like a carpet”. See the positive in it and keep it moving.
here’s a comfy seat 💺Hell must’ve froze over! Finally a female who isn’t bashing males on this bih!
I support this 100%
